Learn to be Enough for Yourself

You have to be enough for yourself. It isn’t a topic for the light hearted, because realizing that whoever or whatever your happiness relies on, unless it’s yourself, is just waiting to disappoint you. Think about it. Who is REALLY there for you? For most of us, it’s not many. Certainly I can tell you it’s not the person who broke your heart or the “best” friend that abandoned you. This is why you have to learn to love yourself. I, myself, have learned this the hard way. The same as most of you. You know what you need. You know what you want. This is why you rely on yourself. Wanting to find the perfect relationship, friendship, or whatever is not a bad thing. But until you find someone that is willing to accept everything about you, commit all of your time to yourself and your happiness. And don’t even think about wasting it on that ex or friend who left your life without giving you a reason. YOU DESERVE A REASON. After all, if you don’t value your time, who will? Book a flight. Read a book. Get an education. Try a new recipe. Learn a new hobby. Live with passion. Find something that will heal you and teach you to love yourself and never give that up for anyone. Then someday, someone will come along and accept every beautiful flaw about you. But until then, you have to work on yourself, because at the end of the day, YOU will have to be enough in order to achieve happiness. ☀️